Dear Shirley and Steve,

I am a 26 year old woman who has been dating a 27 year old man for the past 2 years. When we met it was towards the end of 2012 and after 3 months of talking we find out his ex of 6 years was pregnant with his first child. I chose to stay talking to him. Throughout the pregnancy I was a bit insecure and feeling scared that he would want to rekindle things with his child's mother for the sake of the child. Fast forward to now, it has been almost 2 years and I have yet to meet the child. Who just turned 1 years old and I have yet to attend church with him. I don't know who his child's mother is and she has been a member of his fathers church for some years now. He has mentioned he does not rush into relationships but am I playing myself by continuing to want to be with him? Should I leave or should I just be patient and let him come around with wanting to invite me to church and meet his son.