Dear Steve,

I have a serious problem!! Hopefully you and your staff can help me resolve this SERIOUS LOVE TRIANGLE I'm in. I've been dating TWO cousins, one of which I met two years ago. The cousin I met two years ago knows about the second party, but the second party doesn't know about the first party. The cousin of first party is okay with it, but I'm afraid to let the cousin of the second party know of the dating of the first party. Keep this in mind I didn't know they were cousins until after the cousin of the second party struck up a conversation while in bed together. WHAT SHOULD I DO?