I never lose. I either win or I learn. From some of the most devastating things that have happened in my life, I use them as a life lesson. So I never lose. I win or I learn. I had some great things that have happened to me in my life, but there were also some of the worst times of my life. The key is how you look at them. It's not important what happens to you, it's how you deal with them that counts. So even when you make some of the worst mistakes - you do some things that you will regret and you wish that you could do them differently - you didn't lose in the situation. You will live and you will learn. What appears to be a tragedy, can be a triumph in your life. Keep in mind, it's all in divine order.